We’ve all seen the movies; new friends and old friends heading off on a night out/to search for a dead body/to throw a ring into the fires of Mordor. There’s always one of every ‘type’ to help the hero on their way. But when it comes back to the real world – which types of friends should everybody have in their circle?
1. Someone who is older and wiser than you – the guru
For those of you who never grew up with an older sibling, having a friend that is older is an absolute must. Somebody to hand down their worldly pearls of wisdom. You know the kinds of things; somebody to show the ropes when it comes to relationships, culture and getting out of jury service.
2. Somebody who is younger than you – the grasshopper
As well as sponging advice and information, you also have a responsibility to dish it out to those who need it. If having mentor can improve your character, then having somebody to share your wisdom can do just the same.
3. Somebody who isn’t afraid to say ‘yes’ – the fearless adventurer
‘Yes’ opens up a lot of avenues and opportunities. Having somebody around who isn’t afraid to try new things can do wonders for your social life. It gives you the support to experience the things you’ve always wanted but never had the courage to, as well as a few things you never even thought of.
4. Somebody who knows when to say ‘no’ – the sensible one
Even though ‘yes’ can be a good thing, it can also land you in hot water. It’s always good to have somebody around to keep you grounded, somebody there to remind you that you’ve got work in the morning, that maybe you’d better stick to water for the rest of the night – and that maybe you’re not ready to jump out of a plane just yet.
5. Someone who is the polar opposite to you – the person who surprises you
Instead of constantly surrounding yourself with people who are similar to you – with the same taste in clothes, music, films, hobbies, etc, it’s always good to branch out and meet new people you never even thought of being friends with. Limiting your circle of friends to a certain type might be a good way of doing the things you know you enjoy, but look elsewhere and you may just discover something new.